For many years I have known that both giving forgiveness and receiving forgiveness is essential to healing one's relationship. However, we have all experienced the numerous hardships in trying to accomplish this. For instance, someone is unwilling to forgive you or you are unable to forgive someone.
The truth of the matter is that forgiveness cannot occur when the parties involed are hurt, plain and simple. So how to we address this now that we have discovered it.
I propose the following method(Oneness Movement Method) that worked for me:
In order for any relationship to heal two things must happen...
1.One must completely experience the pain that other has caused them. Once this happens forgiveness comes naturally to them. Once you forgive the other person you are clearing a tremendous hurdle in your own spiritual growth.
2.Secondly, forgiveness must be obtained from the other. This naturally occurs when you completely experience the pain you have cause the other and feel true compassion. Miraculoously they will forgive you and forgiveness would have been easily obtained.
Please note that none of the above can occur without the grace of the divine.The Oneness Blessing is grace and therefore allows all of the above to happen with no effort! Just ask while you are receivng the blessing or after. If you are unable to receive a blessing via phone, Internet, or in person, ask the divine for grace to let this occur.